Giving my first blowjob!“Frequent reader of your site and I just...

Giving my first blowjob!

“Frequent reader of your site and I just wanted to share something that I’m really proud of! I am a 22 year old woman and have only been sexually active for a year, I’m still exploring different positions/experiences and am only just starting to feel like I’m getting into my groove. My current partner is amazing and makes me feel like an absolute goddess in bed! He’s incredibly encouraging and goddamn, the sex is fantastic!

Pretty early in our relationship we were fooling around and he wanted to go down on me and suggested we 69. I had to admit, embarrassed, that I’d never given a blowjob. I guess in my head I felt like it was something that was a degrading act, and I had a really terrible experience with my ex-boyfriend where I froze up and he was really unkind about it. Anyway, I let him know my feelings and he said that he’d love for me to give him a blowjob if I ever wanted to but there was no pressure if I didn’t want to.

Fast forward a few months and I wanted to do something special for him, I was going through a bit of an off patch - my hormonal birth control sometimes makes my libido really low, and while he was very supportive I wanted to help him release some of the pressure, so to speak. I read your post about giving a good blowjob and mentally psyched myself up to it and then surprised him with it one day - I felt so empowered! The noises he was making, my god!

It felt so good making him feel like that! It ended up getting me SUPER wet and we had amazing sex and talked about it afterwards. He was happy that I’d enjoyed it as much as he did. I have since gotten pretty good at it and I love making him squirm! Ladies, if you’re feeling the same way I was I urge you to give it a go if you have a supportive partner who’s happy to accommodate you exploring and finding your way! It’s been so empowering for me and that’s exactly the opposite of how I thought it’d make me feel!”