Everywhere but (f)“So – I’m a virgin who has never been able to...

Everywhere but (f)

“So – I’m a virgin who has never been able to make herself orgasm. I’ve come really, really close but haven’t been able to actually get there. This is something that has frustrated me a lot, actually, and it has gotten in the way of me having any “me time.”

So, I stopped having any “me time” for a while – partially due to the frustration, and partially due to a busy schedule and no time. That is, however, until about two weeks ago. I was lying in bed, unable to sleep, when I decided that I needed to make myself relax. I told myself that I wouldn’t focus on having an orgasm, but just would try and make myself feel good.

Normally, I just jump right in and start rubbing my clit, but that night I decided to start off slow.

I began to rub myself over my panties, everywhere other than my clit. I ran my fingers along the insides of my thighs, occasionally rubbing my pubic mound (SOZ there is no sexy way to say that, I don’t think). It all felt surprisingly good! Touching everywhere but my clit made me feel all the more sensitive – until I swear I was going out of my mind. I have had such a dry spell, I honestly had begun to think I wouldn’t be able to get that wet again.

Still, I couldn’t get off with the indirect stimulation, but because I wanted to focus less on getting off I kept trying to avoid my clit. I ran my fingers along my lips, teasing myself and spreading the growing wetness I felt.

Now, I’ve never liked penetration much, because fingers don’t do anything for me, but I’ve found that stroking flesh around that area, and applying small amounts of pressure right there, is HEAVEN. The sensation just shot right through my center – it felt almost as good as rubbing my clit, without the over sensitivity that always stops me.

If it weren’t for the fact that I had class early next morning, I totally would have stayed up longer to keep going… But I had to get to bed and, for the first time in a long time, I actually felt satisfied.

I didn’t actually orgasm, but I would highly recommend to any other girls with frustrations similar to mine – taking one night to focus on making yourself feel good, rather than getting yourself off, can be really rewarding. :)”