so my gf has only given me a bj once and hasn't again after that because she kinda had a pregnancy scare (Ik you can't get pregnant from blowjobs but she was worried I got sperm on my hand while I fingered her) anyways she didn't get pregnant but now she is scared to do it again how can I get her to do it again with pressuring/convincing her?

If anything, go online and show her actual scientific facts and let her see for herself that there is no way she can ever get pregnant from giving a blowjob. Maybe seeing it for herself and not just hearing it from you will make her see that her fears aren’t rational and she has nothing to worry about.

It’s understandable to have fears and worries and I get where she’s coming from, but unless she has some weird thing against going down on you, there’s no reason for her to be afraid of a blowjob. She should at least try one more time to see if she’s into it and gets any sort of pleasure from it. Because coming from a girl who knows, it’s really hard to suck dick when you get no enjoyment from it at all.

But really, just talk to her straight about it but don’t be pushy. Tell her you understand why she was worried, but there’s no reason she could ever get pregnant from it and then approach the thought of her trying it again if she’s willing. If you’re pushy and you demand it from her, it will only make her less than willing to even try it one more time.
-April